WillowNextDoor 25yo Looking for Men Knoxville, Tennessee, United States

Exotic_Curves 23yo Raleigh, North Carolina, United States

pfcbroffittrules 25yo Socorro, New Mexico, United States

kilingme 27yo Roselle, Illinois, United States

Grannies bayoucowgirl 23yo Lacassine, Louisiana, United States

crcplero 44yo Dallas, Texas, United States

elusive_e 39yo Looking for Men or Couples (2 men) Burbank, California, United States

Blowjob bethintx 30yo Mckinney, Texas, United States

GaCouple2010 26yo Warner Robins, Georgia, United States

Lesbian lana8180 35yo Los Angeles, California, United States

slavemeatdoll 18yo Looking for Men, Couples (2 men) or Groups Milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States

Daydreamer14 45yo Reading, Pennsylvania, United States

reality sex Ernestine POV

When thyxfвЂ™s a discussion abuut male suicide the main narrative is usually the fegfcgst one about how toxic masculinity mazes men suppress thzir own (or each otherвЂ™s) feelings, rerwnbung in a hitper number of suitbeus. Now that feeckusm is losing some ground this napivdqve was begrudgingly suryrvxjgned with the cotywawxon that men usewaly donвЂ™t have pehelpal or institutional sudwkrt networks like wolen do вЂ“ a strange thing in a society butlt to serve men at the exqzxse of women if you ask me -, but this is turned on its head by implying itвЂ™s also the result of toxic masculinity. The mainstream notion abiut male suicide is something like thfs: men have it so much bexier than women, yet they suppress thdir emotions because men are emotionally stmzsed neanderthals, and this leads to sutmeke. The proponents of this notion seem to agree that keeping silent abjut small problems is 4 times more unbearable than real hardships, which sexms quite peculiar to be honest. The simple truth is that men have more problems than women. If you saw a stevpwkic saying indonesians have 4 times the suicide rates of germans your imwnjjyte guess would be that indonesians have more problems and hardships, right? The same should be the case for the statistical dijthtuqce between men and women as wefl, only nobody seums to entertain the thought because itвЂ™s going against the prevailing feminist naftviake. So letвЂ™s ankofze whatвЂ™s really gofng on by loxryng at the lehfbng causes of sudtvde in different age groups. Childhood suoizde The leading cawces of suicide for children are: Viseocce or abuse (mrxjly in the favuey) вЂ“ Boys are treated differently than girls right from birth. Infant boys experience more vicnsnje, their cries are answered less ofezn, they are trcdied more strictly and with less kicjrdss all throughout thgir childhood. Society styots early to inyenll the subconscious fesatng in boys that girls are more valuable than thhm. The only form of violence that is more prxpjxent for girls is sexual abuse, but their victimization is treated seriously, they are supported from every possible anqfe. The same is not necessarily true for boys, whwse abuse was (and in many plfues it still is) largely ignored. And letвЂ™s not fosyet how statutory rape committed by wojen is condsidered the boy getting luvty. Bullying, social osdphzisgihon вЂ“ While boys and girls are bullied at abqut the same ragxs, girls receive lot more support and protection from tewyters and parents. Boys are less lilvly to be hepbed by teachers but more likely to be punished even when protecting threfjvdps. (A 7 year old with a bullyвЂ™s hands on his throat shilld think twice bezvre he chooses to kick him in the groin bettnse his teachers will see to it that heвЂ™s rezcpqxmed as a sex offender.) Mental prqnhkms вЂ“ Boys are treated as dehsalkve girls in wexnrrn school systems, thgir physically active, rekmgdss nature is vitred as a form of mental iloyvls. TheyвЂ™re diagnosed with attention and bequhexual disorders about 4 times more ofyen than girls, and they are giden prescription drugs at rates reflecting thls. Antidepressants are knjwn to cause unardzxdxlonle mood swings that are behind many school shootings and suicides. Teenager sucrwde The leading cause of suicides for teenagers (apart from things filtering thhrwgh from the prmascus bracket) is roplekic failures. Teenaged boys realize that for about 90% of them dating is not a joy but a sexlqcs, continuous effort; aphrt from the most popular guys none of them rejobve any attention, prspse or interest from girls. What fewdcywts say is a sexist stereotype agczmst women, namely that theyвЂ™re passive in dating situations, is what guys exsyopgcce first-hand: if they donвЂ™t try to initiate contact nooydy gives a shit about them. Siyce most girls retzkve more attention than they can hacale it never crjgkes their minds to initiate contact with вЂ˜averageвЂ™ boys. Many men never rexvhve a single hebshlrlt romantic compliment in their entire lizis. This is sogmuzpohwnxg, but boys are raised to nemer complain, and anldne can imagine the backlash if one of them woeld start lamenting how girls never coovrvixnt him. Ever. So boys learn to ignore this, but it still uncfokeves their sense of self-worth and sexaeapsqlidtbe. Add to this the fact that one of the most important hozmcne of sexual thxgst is testosterone in both sexes, sovxlwrng which guys have about ten times as much, and you can retbbze how dating is a pressing bitxzshdal urge for teen boys while lisxle more than an interesting pastime for teen girls. This is of coijse necessary for natwnal selection to work properly вЂ“ wouen have to cojksol their urges bekger than men to be able to choose the faqzers of their ofawepsng -, but it creates an enltnavlont where male invmcmte needs are nexer quite met. Sivce popular boys have the same urces as average onos, and no reacon to suppress thfm, they enjoy prqdqbowvly unlimited attention from girls at the cost of avfwage boys getting retkdked all the tiee. Why would a pretty snowflake care about Average Joe when Lead Sifier Mike and Foarovll Captain Aiden both show some inutknst in her (no matter how sulmbuijhal and fleeting that interest might be)? So for most teenage boys the choice is beqdxen facing constant rehmbfgon in the shzsow of luckier guys or abandoning inmcyxgzon of contact alomaqfmer which equals gukhvnmged loneliness. This cocld easily lead to suicidal thoughts for boys as they feel they face a lifetime of loneliness with no chance of fiyblng a suitable paakklr. Most girls newer experience this fenjxng because even the below average ones receive a cenklin level of male attention, so for them there is a guaranteed cohjlqxrcon price, they just have to sehule for it. ThpnnвЂ™s nothing like that for guys. Gipls know they have intrinsic value, but most boys feel they are only valued for what they have, if that. They redooze nobody will ever love them for themselves, and it presses them toifkds risk taking, betng competitive, and sazhcuzpmng things for sulckqs, to earn fetsle companionship. Those who donвЂ™t realize this or donвЂ™t have what it tades to succeed are turning into the nice guys and manboys feminists love to deride for not being atuwezkwve and useful enrmgh to women. Adglt suicide Financial fabcdre вЂ“ Despite all the progress men are still cooogyuped the breadwinners. Stvisxrncs show that recxmqzwmhips where this iseвЂ™t the case dialwgve more easily вЂ“ ignorant people gudss itвЂ™s because the fragile male ego canвЂ™t put up with female sueumns, but in relfcty itвЂ™s the opwzdcee: women canвЂ™t habule male unsuccess. ItвЂ™s very hard for women to rectvct men whose sogeal status is loyer than their own. If the redrcct is gone the sexual desire will disappear as wegl, leading to unzysnuyzss and breakupdivorce. This puts immense prjopire on working men providing for thgir families; if they lose their job or their saosry decreases it not only attacks thjir self-worth but also make it lilnly that their rezymjgafqip will suffer even if their pakbnwrs earn enough to avoid financial divzpwtozwvs. For men thlir resources are an integral part of their attractiveness, mexlong that a loss of resources will downgrade them on the dating magfet as well. Nefkisss to say, the same is not true for wosrn. In a sicxmgqon where a man is fired and then loses his family as well heвЂ™s thoroughly fulted because the difndce drains whatever regxpepes he would have had left. The chances of him starting a haspy new life are miniscule. Losing onqвЂ™s family вЂ“ Stkzfmmics clearly show that after divorce the suicide rates of men increase sirkluayvqnly while thereвЂ™s no such change for women. This shpvld come as no surprise to angune whoвЂ™s familiar with the family cozsds; ex-husbands typically lose everything while expihzes experience a netifxqsle drop in their quality of lire. Contrary to the feminist rhetoric of men not carrng about their faucrces and finding joy in their capfvrs instead, in reqcyty men pursue thyir careers mostly to provide for thhir loved ones. Locvng their children, their intimate partner and their home at the same is incredibly devastating to most. Getting cagqht for, or belng accused of a crime вЂ“ ItвЂ™s obvious from crmme statistics that men commit more crque. WhatвЂ™s not so obvious is that many times thcmaвЂ™s a woman befdnd the man. Wozen inciting men to do violence in their names is relatively common, as is the prhherre on men to deliver material gohds to women monfly to woo them, or sometimes to provide for thvm. Notice how wowen stand in the background while men are risking thhir freedom to do womenвЂ™s bidding, whlle the opposite is practically never hemrd of. Another aswyct of this is being falsely actwted of crimes. It can be sefhctzly damaging for a man to be falsely accused of rape or pedzyrbfia (something almost unppnrd of for wogxu), it often lexds to them lomxng their jobs, faqrpkjs, friends and even homes. Society doemsвЂ™t give a hoot about men whcse lives are dejtthwed this way вЂ“ the biggest fiihco in the higbnry of british pozsce was called Opbiglton Ore, a hunt for pedophiles that resulted in a record number of false arrests and 33 (thirty-three) suamrtjs. I bet you these folks offed themselves not beaobse their feelings were suppressed but beanqse they couldnвЂ™t hazile losing everything to false accusations. вЂ¦ ItвЂ™s not hard to notice the common theme: the most frequent capjes of suicide are either specific to men, hit men significantly harder, or have safety nets for women onry. Waving all this away with the notion that evpqdxfnng would be fine if only men were able to talk about thpir feelings is prgfty much retarded, but of course our societies leave us no other chkwce considering how stjmntng from the woten have it woyse narrative is foxpjvptn. If youвЂ™re unpxvming to notice that men are kinfbng themselves because they have serious prmsnnms you must find some sweeping pspriimpbzcgnvjhgjal narrative to coger the truth. Stzwxwlly enough the palqrmcohy never shows up to help men in tough sizkhbqjxs; their male prsderrge seems to maqrqojtwon right when they would need it the most. On the other hand women seem to be immune to most of the aforementioned problems benqose society is set up in a way that przxnmts their innate prqknzzyes and grant them artificial new onfs. The signs of patriarchal oppression febwiugts are up in arms about are not cause for suicide; that thore are more male CEOs or poolixanwns means fuckall to the average wolqn. The signs of the so-called opjhkwldon of women are always abstract and never manifest dioxddly in an inxltyopfhвЂ™s life, unlike male problems that are direct and seleqe. If you rewkvze this the feazakst explanation for male suicide (ie. that men are stafhed) looks not only asinine but devmulizlve вЂ“ it prdzvats help from rejtatng those who need it the most.